Why do women get mad at each other?
One of my friends’ little sister recently had a quandary with the woman her boyfriend was cheating on her with. What really nauseates me is seeing two women, well, let me rephrase. What really irritates me, what I really hate is watching two stupid, dumb, airheaded idiot women fight over a man.
You are in a relationship with your boyfriend; your boyfriend is the one cheating on you; the other girl is the one he’s cheating on you with. You had a moral contract with your boyfriend not with the other woman! Why would you lower yourself to the category of “being dumb” by (most probably) publically embarrassing yourself?
If you think for a minute about the whole situation you might understand what’s going on. If your boyfriend is cheating, did the other woman forcefully made him sleep with her? Surely sometimes men are provoked by the gold diggers or morally impaired women but at the end they will commit the act all by themselves. (FYI being provoked isn’t an excuse either)
What if your boyfriend was hitting on the girl without your knowledge? What if like you, she didn’t know about your existence? It’s in men’s nature to sleep with as many women as possible. (Not all of them but the majority) As a woman, don’t you feel that you need all the facts before dealing with the problem?
It’s a trend now for men to tell the women that they are going after that they are in a relationship/marriage and that they are so unhappy; my wife/girlfriend hates me, she won’t cook for me, I am depressed about the situation and God knows what other things men make up to get in your pants. Unfortunately there are women stupid enough to fall for these men and they convince themselves that sooner or later due to the “horrible” situation and frustration the guy is going through he will leave his wife/girlfriend.
I have married men and men with girlfriends hitting on me. These men don’t even fall on my being attractive radar because I don’t even look at them that way at all. If I find myself in the situation of liking a married man or a man with a girlfriend (which never happened BTW), I would date him after he’s legally divorced or left the girlfriend officially. I suggest you women to do the same. It would prevent you disappointment, suffering and most importantly wasting your valuable time.
