L.S.E. Girls

Women are the smartest creatures on the face of the earth. At least most women are. I have many girlfriends and they describe me as a strong willed young woman. Regrettably I can’t say the same about them. In fact only a handful of women I am friends with but none happens to be my closest friends.

I don’t want to start on the wrong foot here by saying that all women are L.S.E. (Low Self Esteem) girls but there are quite a few. If you don’t respect yourself as a person, trust me no one will. Men can read L.S.E. girls like they get through a playboy magazine. In reality they are looking for those types of girls to do as they please with them. You see, when you are an L.S.E. girl or at least possess a somewhat quantity of it, you are giving the guy control over you without even knowing. Unlike women who love to show how they are in charge in a relationship, those men will let you think you’re in charge. They will lie and lie and lie until the day they die!

It may sound like I hate men but in reality I don’t! I am happily married for almost two years now to a wonderful, charming, caring and too good to be true of a man. He was like that the day I met him and he still is today. I really hope he’ll stay that way in the future.

Recently a friend of mine asked me to help her catch her husband because she suspects he’s cheating. This is my answer to my friends and everybody else, NO! I NEVER get involved especially in the L.S.E. cases. Why? I’ll tell you why!

It’s a story that goes like this:

Bob met Sarah. Bob “loves” Sarah. More importantly, Sarah loves Bob. Bob is now Sarah’s boyfriend. Four years has gone by with them being on and off. Bob cheats on Sarah. Sarah doesn’t know. Sarah’s friends know. I know. Sarah’s friends don’t like Bob. I don’t like Bob either. Sarah suspects that Bob cheats. Sarah confronts Bob. Bob Lie to Sarah. Sarah “believes” Bob. Bob continues to cheat. Sarah finds out. Sarah breaks up with Bob. Bob cries and begs for forgiveness. Sarah forgives Bob. Sarah and Bob conceive a child. Bob is cheating again. Sarah confronts Bob again. Sarah and Bob had a big fight. Bob hits Sarah. Sarah is hurt badly. Sarah breaks up with Bob. Months passed by. Sarah forgives Bob. Bob and Sarah are together. Sarah thinks that Bob’s changed. Bob hasn’t. Of course everybody knows. But no one tells. I won’t tell.

Women like this are living in a bubble of hope. They hope the guy will change, they hope people won’t judge them, they hope the guy won’t cheat again, they hope the guy won’t hit them again and they hope their lives will be like a fairy tale. “Happily ever after.”

The heartbreaking part is that these women will realize they have wasted their entire life being with the wrong person when they are pushing 40. This is because no amount of plastic surgery will be enough to retain their husband/boyfriend by their side, away from the 20 year olds.

I guess what I desire is for everyone to live a happy life with the person they truly love. In some cases people tend to love the wrong person and believe that they can change them. It’s not too farfetched to believe you can change someone. I think that you can change some people to a certain degree. You are who you are!